There are people who have the competence but lack confidence. He also said that confidence is a state that we can all acquire at will if we know how. First, by changing your physiology, for example, shoulders pull back, put on a smile, speak in a louder tone than usual, smiling,etc. These body movements will in turn trigger an emotional reactions and the feel good factors kick in, then the confidence engine begins to run. Along the way, recollect good memories of the last event when I was confident, for example, making $500 profits a day, feeling the joy and excitement and relief it brings.
There are things that we more confident with and other matters that we tend to lack. It is not possible to be confident in all areas of our lives. For example, if someone is strong in his health area, he may be lesser confident in his finance/career especially if he is being retrenched or out of job. The black hole , the career portion if not treated well will expand into other areas of his life. Yes, it is infectious and must be treated soonest possible than to let it manifest on its own.
The more recent the event and the better the results it is , it creates a more lasting effect on our memories. Let this memory serves as an anchor for future events that we are embarking on. Also, things that we believes in tends to go along with our confidence level. There is a certain standards that we self-imposed on ourselves.
To be continued.....