Be it good or bad, the things that we think about all day long will manifest in our lives. What we are afraid of and if we spend time thinking about it, its consequences and imagine the consequences happening to you will then be magnified so large that it make sense for our external world to materialise what we think about. Conversely, the opposite is true as well. Think of the loving, kind and good deeds you want. Have faith, do not allow the 5 senses of the external circumstances determine that your dreams is a waste of time. Let go of the time factor, simply indulge in the feelings of your wish fulfilled and it will come into your real world when you least expect it to be.